I was living and working in Fiji as a Columban lay missionary when I got the opportunity to return home to Tonga for Christmas to spend time with my elderly parents and with my siblings. Christmas Day created cherished memories while ensuring my parents felt loved and cared for in the comfort of my youngest brother’s home.
A familiar energy hummed at the place, a symphony of creaking floorboards and laughter echoing in the air. It was my first Christmas home vacation where all nine siblings, now scattered across the country, except for one of my sisters who was in New Zealand, descended upon our brother’s house.
Mum and Dad, their hair a little whiter and their steps a bit slower, were the anchors of this chaotic, loving gathering. We kicked off with a family lunch on Christmas Day. We sang, danced and teased one another. My parents laughed until they cried, their joy infectious.
My siblings and I worked together in the kitchen, preparing our parents’ favourite meals. The aroma of homemade umu from the underground oven, and the roasted pig filled the compound, and we all gathered around the dining table, sharing laughter and stories. My Mum lit up as she recounted the funny mishaps from our childhood, and my Dad chimed in with his anecdotes, bringing back a wave of nostalgia.
This time with family was not just a break from routine: it was a beautiful reminder of the importance of family, connection, and the joy of spending time together in peace and harmony. I realised how much this time meant to all of us. It wasn’t merely about the activities we participated in; it was about the bond we strengthened as a family.
My parents felt cherished, and we all departed with our hearts full of love and wonderful memories, eagerly anticipating our next family gathering. The time together brought us closer and reminded us of the simple joys in life. Thanks to various apps I can stay connected with our far-flung family no matter where I am on mission. But spending time with my family and friends is emotionally refreshing and supports me in many ways. These connections give me a sense of belonging and encouragement. We make sure to pray for each other no matter where we are.
